Guest Blogger – Raeleen McMillion
We are very excited to share the thoughts and stories of our guest blogger, Raeleen McMillion, on the HonesThespian blog this week! In this post, Raeleen discusses how a life in the arts has a ripple effect on generations of society.
I have spent my entire professional career working in/on/around/with theatre. And just like a lot of theatre folk, it began when I was very young. My father wrote a poem for me when I was three years old— it had lots of big words in it like “Czechoslovakia” and “cyclops” and “effervescent”—and my parents got me to memorize it and then would trot me out for visitors who listened to my recitation and who, I assume, applauded politely. Oh! The seduction of applause! Right? And the teaching started early, too: my younger sister was easily convinced that playing the role of my student was fun! An audience of one is still an audience, after all. And the really miraculous, marvelous, wonderful thing is that it all just fit together! It still does. I know that I am a better artist because I am a teacher; I know that I am a better teacher because I am an artist.
So, sometimes when I take the time to ruminate on my good fortune at never having to search for a career path (like when I sit down to write a blog spot offering for a lovely young artist like Matt), I am in awe of my good fortune, and grateful for my smart choices. Because I have met some of the most unbelievable humans who have big hearts and generous spirits, and who focus on contributing something positive to the world we live in. But I guess I can assume that if you are reading this, you are already an appreciator of theatre, and need no convincing on that point!
I used to hear theatre professionals say to young people, “If you can do anything else, do it. Theatre is rough!” That comment makes me cringe a little. I think most of us would agree theatre can be rough on us, but holy cats! Why would anyone want to discourage anyone from dedicating their professional life to the arts?
And boy-oh-boy do we need theatre! We need to share stories, and share experiences, and lift each other up, and decry the evil-doers. We need to give people a reason to laugh and a reason to act; we need to help them imagine better ways to be in the world. We need to nurture empathy, and provide a salve for pain. We need to encourage listening. We need to provoke thinking and indulge feeling. And when we gather in a theatre, we can share these things we need by looking around the room to see others with these needs. We need the connection—we crave it! And like a pebble dropped into a pond, the ripples extend beyond that moment. And if you can be part of something so much bigger than yourself, then that, my friends, is a noble calling.
And, yeah, theatre can be rough. I mean, who else has to keep applying for the same job every 6-8 weeks, ferpete’ssake? Money can be tight, that’s no secret, and there are bad experiences out there. Honestly, I think we (theatre folk) sometimes like to dress up bragging so it sounds like complaining. “My work is SO challenging” = “look at me, I am surviving and thriving where other people have crashed & burned”. And yet, I must admit there are mean critics, long stretches without a show, ruthless climbers willing to step on your head, some bad plays, and some really bad directors. Long hours, low pay, challenging schedules, difficult relationships…So, ok, it’s rough sometimes. I still believe theatre is a noble calling. I really do, and if you’re headed in that direction, I really hope that you do, too.
And here are some thoughts to help you help yourself get through the rough spots.
1. Find three people who you respect as artists AND human beings. Go to them for support and seek out their critique. They must be honest with you or it’s no help. You should seek out their counsel and be prepared to listen to it. Note: Have these chats after your show closes.
2. Getting unsolicited critique? If not, you will. Just about everyone will have an opinion about your work. It’s the nature of the beast! Many of them won’t have any idea what the heck they’re talking about, but they will feel entitled to tell you how well you are doing or not doing, your job. I recommend smiling & nodding while making a mental shopping list for the ingredients to make a good lasagna. Some people who do understand your art and craft may also offer you “free advice”. Sort through it. Discuss the comments with your three dedicated feedback friends so they can help you sort through it. Or do the lasagna thing.
2.5 If your family & close friends don’t understand their roles in your theatrical life, you may have to teach them: their job is to support you. It seems to me you have a couple of choices—either re-direct: Auntie Mabel, please tell me how to make that pumpkin bread that’s so delicious! or straight-up ask them to stop giving you unsolicited feedback: Sorry, Ma, but I can’t handle criticism about my work from you. It’s too difficult for me to process. You might also offer them examples of responses that would help you feel better about your difficult choice to be an artist: You are a great brother, so you can just tell me I’m amazing and leave it at that, ok?
3. Take really, really good care of yourself. Treasure the artist heart in you. Take a walk in the rain; visit a museum; buy a coloring book and crayons—the big pack with the sharpener in the back! Sing to your cat, dance, bake, sew, play board games, work a jigsaw puzzle! Daydream. Read. Write. Create.
So, go ahead—take the plunge! Dedicate yourself to working in/on/around/with theatre; it’s one thing you’ll never get too old for, and one thing that the world will always need—in my not-so-humble opinion. And please bring bold & brave choices to your work. Every time. Yes, it makes you vulnerable, but that’s usually where the good stuff is. Not everyone will understand it or appreciate it, but there are some of us who will be very grateful. There will also be a lot of people who will benefit from the art you put into the world, even though they may not have a clue. Do it anyway; just because you can.
Thanks for reading this. Keep making bold & brave choices! Keep making the world a better place!
Raeleen McMillion graduated with an MFA from Ohio University’s Professional Actor Training Program and then moved to Milwaukee—it’s a happy, long story—where she has been doing all sorts of theatre-related work for a long time now. She helped start a theatre company called Renaissance Theaterworks that focuses on improving and promoting gender equity in professional theatre, and she also got to be a member of the original faculty with First Stage Theatre Academy. She directs once in a while, continues to act occasionally, is a dialect coach frequently, and teaches full-time at UW-Milwaukee’s Peck School of the Arts.
What’s Raeleen up to during the 2017-2018 season?
Dialect/Vocal Coach: DEATHTRAP, FRANKIE & JOHNNY IN THE CLAIRE DE LUNE, & DOUBT at Milwaukee Chamber Theatre; RUSSIAN TRANSPORT & TOP GIRLS at Renaissance Theatreworks; MAJOR BARBARA, 12 OPHELIAS, & 9 to 5 at UW-Milwaukee. Director: BOOK OF DAYS at UWM. Actor: MIRACLE ON SOUTH DIVISION STREET at Milwaukee Chamber Theatre.